Hello. Alright, so I got banned for being a creep to Snickerdoodle at various points during my tenure on the server I'm not asking for an appeal,
The purpose of this thread is to appeal a ban from the discord. If you're not trying to appeal a ban, you shouldn't be posting here. As far as appealing a ban time should be thought of in months, not minutes.
Quote:not even gonna say it won't happen again, because who knows what the future will bring.
That is more than a bit disturbing and isn't any where near okay. You were engaging in behavior that made some of the staff uncomfortable and myriad members of the staff and moderation team agreed was blatantly unacceptable. You were given a multitude of warnings to stop such behavior. That you won't say that you'll stop that behavior is concerning. People can and should learn from their (and other's) mistakes and this (or honestly your first warning) should have been a sign that you need to take a long hard look at yourself and your behavior. Acting 'creepy' or in a way that you know makes other's uncomfortable isn't okay.
But I will say that I truly did not mean to come off as a creep. Think of me how you will, but it's the truth. I'm really impulsive. So, I will accept my ban without issue.
Again, I never meant to be a creep. I've got poor impulse control.
You may be impulsive, but you can work toward controlling your impulses. That doesn't make you're behavior okay. You can't say, "i've got anger issues" and continue to berate the people in your orbit. You need to take the time to work on your flaws. If you have poor impulse control, than try to fix that.
Quote:Though I wasn't there all that often, I consider the mods and staff, and all the folks I interacted with, my friends. I wish them the best going forward.
Just being honest here.
Over and out.
- Sierra (D421 | G343 | A137)#2450
Friends are people you can count on to help you, hold you accountable, and help you better yourself. Friends are people who you trust and who trust you. People you choose to interact with and spend time with. It's a deep bond that takes a lot of time to build. Acquaintences would be a better choice of term.
Quote:PS: That one time I was obsessed with her is long over. Just because I was a creep then doesn't mean I was deliberately being one after... at least how I see it.
PPS: I suck at explaining.
Being a creep or obsessing over someone isn't ever okay. This is one of those cases where your intention doesn't really matter. "I didn't mean to" doesn't change the fact that you did. Since you admit you were obsessed, you should consider consulting your gp and having them recommend someone for you to talk to in order to deal with the problematic behaviors. It would be in your best interest and would likely benefit those in your orbit.
Quote:PPPS: DM me a complete log of interactions, if at all possible, so I can see your version of events and explain my side of it properly.
That's not going to happen. You had ample time and multiple warning in which you could've examined your behavior and tried to change. It isn't our responsibility to go through every single one of your actions and point out each instance of you crossing the line. You were warned at the time for some of it. Take some time; examine yourself. Take a long look at your behavior. Talk to someone who can help you do that.